Say ‘No’ to chaos

Stop confusion, negativity, stress, anxiety, and bring in clarity, balance, wellbeing, prosperity. Declutter and organize. Smart storage is key in a functional and visually pleasing place.

Liberate yourself from the energetic shackles of junk and mess.

Respect yourself: you deserve a harmonious space around you that helps, not hinders you. Make sure all systems are in good working order. Plumbing, electricity, heating, venting… Safety comes first. Repair or change what does not work. Nothing should aggravate you, no leaks, clogs, broken parts, dysfunctional appliances. All should be working like a well-oiled machine, so you can focus on the important things, like quality time with your loved ones while enjoying your nest.

Feng Shui hint:

Maintenance does not only mean regular repairing, decluttering, cleaning, but energetic cleansing and blessing ceremonies as well.


Keep only what is special

Create a sanctuary where you can rest and recharge, and that will support the authentic you.

Objects of art, artifacts, statement pieces, sacred power objects, inspirational/ spiritual books, memorabilia, good luck symbols. Meaningful, cherished, heartwarming.

The familiar with a pinch of surprise.

Feng Shui hint:

Do not go overboard with the quantity.


Go natural

Bringing nature inside (directly or indirectly) is vital for our physical, mental, emotional, spiritual wellbeing.

A huge interior design trend for 2021, natural materials and textures are safe, inviting, and better quality.

Delighting our senses means going beyond the visual and bringing in dimension. Warm wood, sleek metal, elegant stone, rustic brick, chic leather, colored glass, simple cotton, rich velvet, gorgeous silk, cozy wool, exotic grass-cloth, unusual gemstones, fiery feathers, fun shells. The possibilities are endless.

Regularities of forms/ patterns repeat at different scales (called fractals) in nature. They invoke the beauty of creation, that is why they reduce stress in us.

Plants and flowers naturally filter and humidify the air. They improve our mood, concentration, productivity.

Pets move the energy around, give us joy, lower our stress level.

Feng Shui hint:

Consciously create the balance of the Five Elements (wood, fire, earth, metal, water) in your home, so you can harness the best energies for you.

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Color your world

Color changes how we experience the atmosphere of a certain space. It is not only about treating ourselves visually. Color is life force.

Natural colors- whites, beige, yellows, greens, greys, browns, clays, taupe, black- are visually relaxing.

A major trend for 2021, neutrals are stable backdrops for bold or whimsical design elements.

Navy blue (a special pick for next year) is also a neutral color according to some designers.

You can play around with lighter colors for a spacious and fresh feeling, and darker colors for an intense and cozy vibe.

Feng Shui hint:

Increase vitality by applying Five Elements Colors (green, red, yellow, white, black) or the Seven Rainbow Colors (red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, purple).


Heal with sunlight

Sunlight has healing power: it boosts our energy, balances hormones, improves circulation, makes us productive. And it is a natural disinfectant. Let it in as much as possible.

Feng Shui hint:

Full spectrum lights imitate natural light.



Comfortable temperature indoors is as crucial to our wellbeing, as clean air.

To purify the air:

  • vacuum clean often
  • have plants
  • install good ventilation
  • keep a salt lamp around
  • light beeswax candles
  • enjoy essential oils as effective remedies for body-mind-spirit.

Feng Shui hint:

Pick the specific essential oil(s) for the desired result(s). Scent can become an interior design element.

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Tune into high vibrations

Digital sabbaticals are priceless when it comes to being mindful about the noise you produce.

What vibration do you choose to envelop yourself in?

Playing high vibrational music and sounding wind chimes can help in breaking down blocks and attracting auspicious new flow into your life.

Nature sounds (birdsong, sounds of the rainforest and waterfalls) are incredibly relaxing.

Feng Shui hint:

Hang quality metal wind chimes for best results.


Raise your own vibration

Your own energy becomes an essential part of your experience in a space.

What energy do you emanate through your thoughts, emotions, the impressions you take in?

Regretting the past and worrying about the future simply drain your valuable energy. Be in the NOW moment.

Give gratitude.

Surprise yourself (and the world) by awakening your dormant talents.

Brainstorm, plan.

Visualize good things coming into your life.

Act towards your dreams and goals. Act ‘As if’.

Create (paint, write, bake…)- connect with your inner child and find what you are passionate about.

Honor the activities that you find relaxing, healing, motivating and set up an area/nook for them with comfy furniture, rugs, the right lamp, inviting personal items, some inspiring artwork.

Start something new: a hobby could grow into a business, learning a new skill is always useful.

Watch uplifting programs and movies.

Listen to high vibrational music.

Sing and laugh.

Move, dance, try yoga poses with intention.

Choose and look at colors with their psychological attributes, healing qualities in mind.

Bring the harmony of the Five Elements into your fashion.

Eat high vibrational fresh food.

Release toxic habits.

Take salt baths to help toxins flush out of your body.

Get massages to revitalize yourself.

Spend as much time in nature as possible.

Balance your chakras, meditate, pray.

Interact with like-minded people.

Help someone in need.

Strive to do your soul’s work in this world.

Your thoughts, words, emotions, actions can have healing power.

Remember that!

Feng Shui hint:

Your physical, mental, emotional, spiritual state and the energy of your environment interact and influence each other constantly.

Elevating your habitat energetically will accelerate your progress in every field of life.


Create a home that you love, and that loves and nurtures you.
Bless your nest with a loving heart.


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Julianna Kocsis is a Feng Shui Specialist, Organizational Expert, Intuitive Vibrational Catalyst, Textile Design Archivist. She is also the founder of Talila Consulting. Bringing Order and Harmony to your Home, Work and Life.

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Julianna Kocsis Founder Talila Consulting Julianna has more than 25 years of experience as a textile design consultant, archivist and visual merchandiser, as well as holding a Diploma in Interior Design and Decoration. Her strong design and merchandising background, unique organizational skills, and intimate understanding of space planning have equipped her to create customized systems that are high-functioning, accessible, inspiring and visually pleasing. Besides her proven design skills, Julianna brings together a deep love of beauty, order and harmony. Her certifications in BTB Feng Shui, Feng Shui Staging, Intuitive Consulting, Theta Healing, and Multi-Dimensional Healing, as well as her experience of Reiki, Shamanic Healing and esoteric studies, allow her to adopt a holistic and flexible approach to every client. She has a unique ability to utilize various energy healing modalities, conscious manifestation tools, meditation techniques and intuitive insights to tap into the psychology of the person and the space and to activate the sacred connection that binds the two together. As she holds a BA in Teaching English, and lived in the US for several years, Julianna has no problem communicating and partnering with international clients, and building that vital personal connection. Through a rare combination of common sense, integrity, and a hint of the miraculous, Julianna takes every client on their own journey of personal transformation from chaos to order.

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